To Love or To Hate?

Seems it's been quite long I never write again. Finally I got something to write on. XD the title is " To Love or To Hate". We often met the situation that some people like us and some people might not like us, for whateversoever reasons. Does it mean that they hate you? 

First of foremost, hating or loving is all about choice. You have the so called CHOICE to love or to hate or to unlike someone. You might give a thousand and one reasons to mention why you don't like the certain people. They might be arrogant, annoying, or you just simply don't like. It's easy to hate people.

But how about if you are the one who's being hated ? 

How do you feel when you are being hated or being unlike by people around you? You might asking here and there and trying to fix things but at the end it just doesn't work at all. 

1 thing we must know : WE CAN'T PLEASE EVERYONE. 

Face the fact that we are not perfect so does other people. Stop pleasing everyone, just become who you are and show to them who you are, don't be a fakers that love to be loved by everyone when some people might not love you. 

It's kinda random here, but tonight I talked with my friend and she told me about this things, and she also told me that someone didn't like me last time. For me, I just take it lightly, they don't like then it's ok, I'm just being me myself and I. I'm not thinking about me myself and I, I did change, did something better for myself, evaluate myself, and pray of course, but when things can't be worked on, I just can't helped it. I tried, just can't and I don't want to be someone that I'm not. 

Now, I choose to love. I'm trying not to hate people, to put grudge, or whatever. I'm not saying that I'm holy or what, but I feel better I feel great I feel so much lighter when I don't hate people. Just forgive them. If I can't find reason to forgive people, I'll just remember this phrase, it was once said by Jesus before He died on the cross for us, on 

Luke 23:24a "Then Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do."" 

Love, Hate, Unlike, Unfriend, to make friends, etc are the matter of choice. Which one you choose? 

Love or Hate?