To Love or To Hate?

Seems it's been quite long I never write again. Finally I got something to write on. XD the title is " To Love or To Hate". We often met the situation that some people like us and some people might not like us, for whateversoever reasons. Does it mean that they hate you? 

First of foremost, hating or loving is all about choice. You have the so called CHOICE to love or to hate or to unlike someone. You might give a thousand and one reasons to mention why you don't like the certain people. They might be arrogant, annoying, or you just simply don't like. It's easy to hate people.

But how about if you are the one who's being hated ? 

How do you feel when you are being hated or being unlike by people around you? You might asking here and there and trying to fix things but at the end it just doesn't work at all. 

1 thing we must know : WE CAN'T PLEASE EVERYONE. 

Face the fact that we are not perfect so does other people. Stop pleasing everyone, just become who you are and show to them who you are, don't be a fakers that love to be loved by everyone when some people might not love you. 

It's kinda random here, but tonight I talked with my friend and she told me about this things, and she also told me that someone didn't like me last time. For me, I just take it lightly, they don't like then it's ok, I'm just being me myself and I. I'm not thinking about me myself and I, I did change, did something better for myself, evaluate myself, and pray of course, but when things can't be worked on, I just can't helped it. I tried, just can't and I don't want to be someone that I'm not. 

Now, I choose to love. I'm trying not to hate people, to put grudge, or whatever. I'm not saying that I'm holy or what, but I feel better I feel great I feel so much lighter when I don't hate people. Just forgive them. If I can't find reason to forgive people, I'll just remember this phrase, it was once said by Jesus before He died on the cross for us, on 

Luke 23:24a "Then Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do."" 

Love, Hate, Unlike, Unfriend, to make friends, etc are the matter of choice. Which one you choose? 

Love or Hate? 

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I've been thinking about my blog template, it just looks awful. :( it was, but it isn't now! Because I have the new one! *HAPPY*

Anyway guys, Happy Cap Go Meh!!! And also Happy Chinese New Year ! Gong Xi Gong Xi ! :)

So, this CNY as usual I'm home. I really love to spend CNY in my hometown, because it wasn't about angpows, but it's all about the family. I love to spend time with my family, well, we didn't have so much talk, but at least I thank God my grandparents are still alive (both from mom and dad's side), but I only can attend my CNY with grandparents from daddy's side. We didn't have much activities like others did.

On the 29th night (CNY Eve) we had what they called it reunion dinner. I assumed it's a family reunion since there might be some of them staying in other cities, so they had reunion during CNY. For me, I had reunion with my beloved families. We had "Makan Besar", so mum cooked various dishes, sadly I did NOT have picture :'( *dumbassme* after we finished dinner, my grandparents distributed the angpows, I was happy, I received quite big amount than last year. *happy* DINNER DONE, ANGPOWS DONE, next was CLEAN THE HOUSE and PREPARE for OPEN HOUSE on the next day.

My family had tradition, not really tradition, but we gave treat for our staffs, relatives, friends who came to our house. Treat such as foods, drinks, cakes, candies, angpows, etc. The food was awesome, we had BAKSO (meatball), last year my mum made for 700 balls, this year she made 1200 balls and it's all gone! Can you imagine how many people came to our house, not only that, we had pasta, grilled fish with sambal, french fries, rice, and chicken rica-rica. I know it's kinda mixed up whether Indonesian food or Western food, but everyone enjoys it. Including me, except the chicken rica-rica and grilled fish with sambal, it's totally DAMN HOT! Without tasting it, I know IT'S HOT!!

I think that's all for my CNY. hehe. HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR!! And oh, it's DRAGON year btw, *RoOOoOOOArRRr* (is that how dragon sounds?)

And yeah, I spend very good time in my hometown, eat and eat and eat and never gain weight ! T^T my mum told me that I've lost weights and she wanted me to eat more.

Anyone can tell me how to gain weight? I don't have big capacity, I hardly take supplements (only Vit. C), my appetite goes up and down. I'm 160cm with 48kgs. *crossingfingersoicangainmoreweight*